Raquel Zak de Goldstein, Buenos Aires
Tu, que consolas, que nao existes e por isso
consolas,
Ou deusa grega, concebida como estátua que fosse viva,
Ou patrícia romana, impossivelmente nobre e nefasta.
Ou princesa de trovadores, gentilíssima e colorida,
Ou marquesa de século dezoito, decota e longínqua,
Ou cocote célebre do tempo dos nossos pais... *
Fernando Pessoa, (Tobbaco Shop)
Car Je est un autre.
Arthur Rimbaud**
...No nos une el amor sino el espanto.
Será por eso que la quiero tanto.***
Jorge Luis Borges, (Buenos Aires)
Even a marriage is not made secure until the wife has succeeded in making her
husband her child as well and in acting as a mother of him.
A woman’s identification with her mother allows us to distinguish two
strata: the pre-Oedipus one which rests on her affectionate attachment to her
mother and takes her as a model, and the one from the Oedipus complex which
seeks to get rid of her mother and taker her place with her father... But the
phace of the affectionate pre-oedipus attachment is the decisive one of a woman’s
future: during it preparations are made for the acquisition of the characteristics
with which she will later fulfill her role in the sexual function and perform
her invaluable social tasks. It is in this identification too and that she acquires
her attractiveness to a man, whose Oedipus attachment to his mother it kindles
into passion... an impression that we are constantly receiving during analitic
practise [is that] a man of about thirty strikes us a youthful, somewhatunformed
individual, whom we expect to make powerful use of the possibilities for development
opened up to him by analysis. A woman of the same age, however often frightens
us by her psychical rigidity and unchangeability... as through, indeed, the
difficult development to femininity had exhausted the possibilities of the person
concerned...
But do not forget that I have only been describing women in so far as their
nature is determined by their sexual function. It is true that influence extends
very far; but we do not overlook the fact that an individual woman may be a
human being in other respect as well... enquire from your own experiences of
life, or turn to the poets or wait until science can give you deeper and more
coherent information (Freud, 1933, pp. 133-5).
Female sexuality has given rise to numerous controversies, especially centering
on certain subjects since Freud. Some of these controversies seem to find an
answer in phycoanalytic practice, whereas other are beyond this peculiar kind
of observation since clinical experience may become inaccurate, as Freud himself
pointed out. Some of his well know metaphors like the ‘dark continent’and
others have further contributed to obscuring the subject of femininity, thus
a prior making the key question ‘what does a woman desire?’ difficult
or even impossible to answer. Perhaps the unconscious presence of a perjudice
he tried to avoid several times exertes a decisive influence on the Freudian
theoretical edifice in connection with female pychology, thus preventing a wider
examination of it.
Let us examine the subject. An already debated first issue refers to the theory
of the existence of a phallic phase, common to both sexes and therefore, highly
important to the development of psychosexuality. The comparison of the clitoris
with a little penis, ‘which might eventually grow’or that ‘has
already ben cut’ though observable in tha fantasies of women in analysis,
was later shown to be a defensive screen. As derivatives of that comparison,
the Penisneid and theFreudian female csatration complex as well as the disputed
idea of the ‘two female orgasms’, the clitorial and tha vaginal,
lose their former weight.
The ‘subordination an integration’ of the partial drives to genital
primacy, pre ordered in terms of the reproductive function, constitutes another
classical conception (though not irrefutable for that reason) which faces us
with the risk of subordinating female sexuality to a manerity where biology
prevails, thus blurring the problem or female desire.
I think that a clinical level the analysis of little girls has irrefutably shown
not only the early knowledge, both in girls and boys, of the existence of the
vagina, but also the presence of vaginal perceptions in the girls, which may
(or may not) later succumb to repression (Aberastury, 1970). Most authors, have
agreed on this (e.g. Kleinm 1932; Greenacre, 1953, and others).
At the clinical level I agree with Janine Chasseguet-Smirgel (1975) that the
‘theory of sexual phallic monism’does not fully account for may
issues which remain obscure.
With respect to the female problem, I think it a secisive step to study the
characteristics and consequences of a peculiar relation of continuity, intimacy
and closeness observable during the pre-oedipal phase between the girl and her
mother, a relation Freud was also aware of. It is my view that this attachment
does not allow for an appropriate distance to be established between them (not
as wide as for the boy) at the onset of the depressive position.
The question must be raised as to the effects this situation may habe on all
the girl’s mechanisms and phychic economy.
‘The male essence of the libido’, an alteady debated issue, led
to the active-male confusion to which Freud has drawn our attention; however,
it is still difficult not to equate female with passive and see that the female
‘evokes’ in the male not only his ‘rejected femininity’
but also the multiple traces of the cut (coupure) in the archaic erotic experience
which very early separated the boy from his carnality in order for him to became
female.
The female is a fascinating and enigmatic object, mainly because she brings
tha male close to what was ‘most familiar’ and was transformed after
the cut (courpure) into the ‘Unheimlich’, Freud’s ‘uncanny’.
The image of the cloaca also contributes to this, and, being her to these phenomena,
becomes part of the female’s imaginary body, thus transforming her interior
and genitalia into a ‘black hole’. In the light of our present understanding
it is these complex fantasies that originate the repression of the knowledge
of the vagina. The female, her inner world and sexuality from there on acquire
a fascinating and terrible, universally strange quality.
Personally I think that our view of female sexuality becomes enriched by considering
the dilemma woman constitutes for man. I shall now develop some of these ideas,
centred on theoretical research and starting from the differences in the early
process of sexualization in both the girl and the boy.
THE APPROPRIATE DISTANCE
The Mandanes Indians of North America (Levi-Strauss, 1958)
used to give an ancient piece od advice: ‘It would be better if you went
beyond the river and build your own village there so as not to see the smoke
of our houses... In this way, we shall be near enough to be friends and not
so far as to be enemies’ .
We know that only if an appropiate distance is established between the two,
will the passage from the ‘perfect love’ of the symbiotic fusion
of primay narcissim toward indiciduation asn object relation be possible. Space
is needed for the emergence of the germ of identity and the recognition of other.
The child, who is the stuffed bear of his parents’pleasure, prematurely
enters ‘the mirror stage’ (studied by Wallon (1931) and described
as such by Jacques Lacan (1936)). Although incomplete and unfinished, unable
either to survive or to master his gestures, he is able to recognize himself
in the mirror. He can turn back, look at another person and perceive separation.
He has ‘discovered’ otherness and ‘is moved’ by this
situation he will have to live in. Play will be his key and desire his motor.
It is paradoxical (and in my view decisive, owing its determining effects on
the enigmatic and uncanny female nature) that the first notion of identity in
the infans, what is most his own, comes from the outside, from that mirror image
visually captured, and from an ‘alien’, the mother who is gazing
at him. At this structural moment, between tha ages of six and eighteen month,
the propioceptive data, dispersed and uncoordinated, given the ‘specific
prematurity of bith in man’ (Bolk, 1926), become unified in a self-image.
But this has its price. A ‘haemorrhage’ of narcissistic libido illusorily
accompanies the disappearance (in the cut) of that someone strangely his own,
who there acquires the alter ego’s characteristics; namely, as living
dead, as double. As an analysand once said, after attending a performance of
Warner’s opera The Flying Dutchman, it hurts as if it were an amputee’s
‘ghost limb’. It is the uncanny feeling of something that is not
there. Moreover, throught this mirror experience of the infans, we can infer
some consequences I consider decisive for the sexualization process, even at
this early stage.
In this stage, thought the mother’s gaze, the ‘infans’ has
received precise instructions as to ‘who he is’ and ‘how he
must be’ in order to be loved and recognized. One may think that in this
stage tha bases of the self-image are already laid with a female as well as
a male identity. The narcissistic identification, which is the nucleus of identity,
come from this play of glances in the mirror stage. Before this, the fantasy
of the torn body predominates. (This experience has been corroborated by child
psychology and comparative psychology.) The libido localized in the erogenous
zones simultaneously ‘delineates’ in the infans a body inhabited
by local desires. This set of zones and partial drives also becomes gradually
unified by a skin surface which constitutes what we consider the primitive erogenous
body.
It is my view that this experience of the "fragmented body" gives
way to a sense of unity with a sexual attribute .
I think that when Freud hears the angry complaints of men and women at the beginning
and above all at the end of analysis, he wonders in surprise: what do they want?
and he finally thinks that it is a question of biology, of the bedrock.
He was in fact dealing with the effects of the carnal experience of mutilation
produced by the cut which interrupted fusion. This is an indelible mark accompanied
by anxiety and a feeling that "something" is lacking; something feared
and wished for, something that constitutes itself in the motor of desire from
there on. It is precisely at that moment that the weaning experience takes place,
just when a rudimentary recognition of non-Ego emerges, together with hate and
aggressivity. The mother removed herself physically, and "failed"
in the previous illusionary satisfaction (as in Winnicott) by momentarily interrupting
the circuit of drives and communication. The infantile desire, here set in motion,
will search for that "something" in "that peculiar detail"
belonging to the loved and "lost" familiar figure, this perhaps being
the predecessor of the fetish. The child searches for that detail in a gaze,
a smell or a feature; in whatever is capable of moving him to evoke and to release
the hallucinatory gratification. "That" which is lost is what Jacques
Lacan (23) called objet petit a in a topography of desire; Winnicott's transitional
object, a man-made object- being its initial "support".
This "object" is related to separation and to the cut, it is in the
body, in an orifice, a passage place, between outside and inside . Its direct
reemergence is accompanied by anxiety experiences owing to its source in "what
is most familiar and has been lost" (1919) (10). It places us vis a vis
the"uncanny" with its mixture of repugnance and thanatic fassination.
The objet petit a seems to be an appropriate concept to explain the process
that originates the previously fetishized lure, since it belongs to the uncanny
in the experience of separation from the mother which is equated with a mutilation
of one's own body.
This has to do with a remnant objet, with an experience with the death drive,
in the domain of primitive erogenous masochism (1924) (11) J on account of its
origin it would seem to be neither assimilable nor imaginable.
This object can neither be integrated nor endowed with an image. These characteristics
coincide with those of the objet petit a and in turn seem to be clearly different
from the Kleinian part object. It is the cause rather than the object of desire.
In Freud it is equivalent to what is not representable. Being the libido's initial
support, this object is at the same time a last and irreducible reservoir because
it borders on the narcissistic libido. I think it was this characteristic that
led Freud to the metaphor of the bedrock (1937) (14), for lack of an appropriate
concept, This seems to be further evidence of its dual nature: Eros and Thanatos
are placed side by side in this little "object", which is impossible
to locate in any known referential object category.
The increase of anxiety makes the infans search for and "salvage"
(he"finds", says Winnicott) from his environments, a "something"
with which he establishes a relationship. The infans, as subject, is supported
and conforted "by this object". This piece of something familiar from
his environment is in a way the primitive vehicle for some of his bodily identity;
even though, for the baby, there is not yet a body as such. These are decisive
moments since the resources for the mastery of anxiety and persecution are then
set in motion. If the narcisistic injury does not prevail, cathectization and
object love will begin. The future object relation will rise from the play on
this objet petit a and from the uncanny that surrounds the laceration of its
initial emergence, mediated by "that piece of something familiar"
the transitional object and its heirs. The relation between the transitional
object and the objet petit a appears to be the obverse and reverse of the mutilation
experience The former involves Eros and the latter Thanatos, because the former
object, susceptible of being manipulated, brings them together in a rudimentary
relation by fending off the anxiety surrounding "that little object"
burdened with the thanatic omnipotence that permeated its origin.
This primitive procces may be correlative to that of sexualization since it
is clearly different for each sex. I think that the mother neither looks at
nor manipulates the girl in the same way as the boy. Her gaze summarizes expectations
and wishes that order and define the sexual profile of each. The boy is very
early separated by his mother from closeness with her body and desire. The girl
instead is held in that closeness, this making her consequently run the risks
of dual identity with the mother. The maternal circuit, indispensable for her
female identification, will be her "world" for a long time: Up to
the time of her menarche the girl will function in a defensive "day dream",
as characterized by the classical Fairy Tales I have dealt with in another paper
(30). The father being "absent" and the good mother "dead",
she must live with the phallic mother embodied in the witch image. Her belated
detachment is made real in maternity's cut, impregnated with the same uncanny
persecutory quality (as shown in clinical experience /by puerperal anxieties
and psychosis) that the male is faced with in the primitive imago.
THE SEXUALIZATION PROCESS IN THE BOY AND IN THE GIRL.
Resorting to applied psychoanalysis, we find the following
remarks in Freud's "Moses and Monotheism" (1939) (15) when referring
to the matriarchal social order, later succeeded by the patriarchal. He writes:
".... this turning from the mother to the father points in addition to
a victory on intellectuality over sensuality, that is, an advance in civilization,
since maternity is proved by the evidence of the senses while paternity is a
hypothesis, based on an inference and a premiss. Taking sides in this way with
a thought process in preference to a sens perception has proved to be a momentous
step". Is the thought process given preference? .. I do really think it
is a momentous step from the point of view of its unconscious influence on the
constitution of an ideological bastion, because of the loss that the estrangement
from the knowledge of the carnal body of sensuality and sense perception means
for the boy, namely, "what belong to women".
Intellectuality and abstract words linked to universality and the transmission
of power substitute for this knowledge among men, who are thus alienated from
sense perception, the imaginary projective-introjective contimuum, that is at
work from the very beginning for boys as well as for girls. This is mode of
communication inherent to the primitive symbiotic fusion.
The girl must remain within the affectionate aspect of the "mother-attachment"
in order to identify herself as a female. This attachment retains much of its
primitive nature imparting some peculiarities to the female bond and therefore
causing major complications not only in the vicissitudes of the Oedipus Complex
(as regards both its phases) but also, definitely in the process of acquisition
of her feminine autonomy.
On the one hand, the girl is absorbed by the conflic1 of ambivalence and the
excessive closeness of the primitive figure; and on the other, the processes
of female identification keep he preoccupied with her body, her integrity and
her possessions from early childhood. She is held in and must not only restrict
her centrifugal impulse but circumscribe her play as well. She is brought up
in and for the concentric universe of the carnal body (l9) of maternity and
of the family circle. H.Blum, R. Stoller, E. Galenson and H. Roiphe (16) carried
out significant research in the field of female identity.
In having to acquire the desirability (inherent to the nurturing breast and
to the mother who introduced eroticism) necessary for the function of "sexual
lure" for the male, she becomes an image that primarily "speaks"
to erogenicity and desire and secondarily to others. She receives from a distance
herfather's sexual instructions as well. As opposed to the boy, who "has"
the mother on his side from the start and needs to "escape" from her
to differentiate himself, the girl must create means for attracting her father's
gaze and love, and "deserve" him. The real father, "distant"
from the background, forces the girl to learn the art of fighting among women
so as to dodge the maternal persecutory presence and bring him close to her
father's world. The relation to reality and action is wider and it is made easier
by this early separation. The real father immediate presence between the boy
and his mother introduces "space" and allows for differentiation.
The boy is very early forced besides to utilize defensive mechanisms such as
splitting, foreclosure and the like so that he can "ignore what he experienced"
in the fused diadic relationship, thus remaining far from the maternal carnal
space and obedient to paternal law.
I think this has decisive future effects on his relationship with the female.
We can also infer its influence (in an unconssious interaction) on the factors
that determine what is "feminine" for the male and for the female.
This early divergence affects the girl and the boy significantly. Is there anything
characteristic about the gir in this "beforehand"? Is there something
like a maternal law (in addition to the basic paternal law common to both) in
the pre-Oedipal process which might constitute a peculiarity in he psychic apparatus?
And if, as it seems, there is no threat comparable to the boy's castration anxiety
for the girl, who remains a long while in the maternal circuit, what indeed
happens? Wouldn't the modes of identification in the female be essentially different
from those in the male? We are faced with a set of effects which are peculiar
to the evolution of the girl and which impose characteristic marks on the female
personality and on the vicissitudes of women.
The paths of the girl and the boy separated very early in life. The boy, complicated
and hurried by his sexualization, had to separate his own torn body, split himself
and also dissociate the object in order to foreclose what he had experienced
in his archaic sexuality. He had to preserve his male sex and at the same time
his possible access to the female which implies evoking his mother, he achieves
this by creating the fetish which acts as mediator and support, in this situation,
it is not the perverse fetish, but an original production of human sexuality,
the boy creates this fetish and the girl plays the lure. It is precisely this
function that imbues what is feminine with mystery; as we see, it is a veile
evocation of that archaic familiar "something". Infantile sexual desire
is fixated to this lure-object, whose action also dominates the primitive anxiety,
"catastrophic anxiety" (27), "nameless horror" for Bion,
"inconceivable anxiety" for Winnicott, which rises out of the amputated
cut where that los "something" remains like a disjointed remnant of
the mutilated being, nor does it fit into any habitual scheme of reference,
however, in theory as well as in clinical practice, we must deal with that remnant,
perhaps the cause of the "certain abnormality” pointed out by Joyce
McDougall (26), and consider it normal inherent to human sexuality.
Our sexuality came into action precisely because of initial lack of adjustment
between necessity and desire due the cut; it produced those remnants or "residues"
susceptible of becoming fetishes, that certain abnormality; it is the unattainable
"something", "ghost" of what was lost, the place of human
desire.
In the young woman, the fate of these residues susceptible of becoming fetishes
takes a peculiar turn: they come constitute, in "herself" precisely,
the set of clues and emblems which later will be displayed by femininity in
the "play of lure".
They put into play certain acts whose ambiguity is due to the uncanny and seductive
nature surrounding that which it is meant to evoke in the male. The female simulates
with her femininity the lure of the desire for that "something" of
the ecstasy of the experience of satisfaction which she initially experienced
as well. This promotes an aesthetic jouissance referring to "Beauty"
and at the same time avoids provoking displeasure thus avoiding anxiety. Change
of appearance, make up, dress, and all that functions to delimit, acquire the
value of a lure and tend to surprise, provoking and activating the necessary
excitation, curiosity and impulse for possession and mastery. This will succeed
(through one of its aspects) in becoming articulated with the individual detail
of fetish of each man. The fetish functions as an element of connection or precipitation
of the unconscious fantasy of the "individual primal scene", for which
his eroticism fantasized a plot. The male's fetish may belong either to the
type of fetish we may name as "precipitator" or to the perverse type
of fetish. The first, the precipitating fetish, is the connection that paves
the way to sexual behaviour, mediating sexual fantasies and rendering the field
of the relationship instinctual, thus propitiating coitus. The perverse type
of fetish, all to the contrary, occupies the center of the imaginary scene and
in reality prevents the field from becoming instinctive, coexisting with a personality
having a perverse structure (3).
The play of the lure also manifests the articulation of infantile sexual polymorphism,
organized in forepleasure. The female body, on the one hand, is identified with
her mother's body: here it is lure and key to pleasure. On the other hand, it
alludes to the emptiness of the object (familiar-forbidden); this is the other
function of the female: to hide that emptiness, which is covered up by her as
lure-woman. In essence, the base is the maternal sign. The voice, the gazes,
the female body, already cathecticized by that characteristic and mysterious
darkness, invites "profanation", to play with the forbidden, transgression
of the interdiction on that archaic "incest". In pathology, the Marquis
de Sade is its paradigmatic example.
The female finds herself placed in a difficult role: privileged object of desire
and at the same time, insurance against the foreclosed return of a forbidden
and anguishing experience. She must evoke and forget her first experience of
jouissance and impotence and lacerations the most uncanny of human experiences.
THE FEMALE SIGN
The female sign is basically a maternal sign; for this reason
it is pregnant with its essential aspects, as Freud pointed out in 1913 (9)
and in 1900 (9)s "...the mother herself, the beloved one who is chosen
after her pattern, and lastly the Mother Earth who receives him once more."
Something like the Biblical unification of "the three faces of Eve"
is at the base of adult sexuality. This triple meaning of the mother: generator
of life, object of desire and carrier of death, is what contributes to the essence
of "th real presence " studied by Freud in "Das Unheimlich"
( "The Uncanny"). Freud shows that the uncanny is equivalent to what
was once domestic and familiar, now become terrifying; he does not yet refer
to the death drive, although the concept is already present, ready to be formulated
somewhat later in his work. The prefix "un-" indicates the mark of
its ulterior repression, especially suffered by the boy, who is drastically
forced to alienate himself from all that is familiar to him.
"... belonging to the house... The warm room... The lullaby-heimlich...
The sentinel's horn... [the] voice invites so hospitably..." "...love-affair,
love, sin; heimlich places (which good manners oblige us to conceal)..."
(l0}; this is what will be taken upon herself by the young woman who, in her
female and maternal identification, becomes from then on the object of the man's
ambivalence: desired and repudiated for her essential maternal origin. This
is the mark of the sexualization of both.
A MYSTERIOUS ORGASM?
Since the malerenounced the archaic carnal bond in order to become sexualized,
he lost his direct relationship with that jouissance beyond phallic jouissance.
Bound to the concrete curve of tumescence and alien to feminine jouissance (essentially
equivalent to the other) the phallic orgasm of the male is burdened by castration
anxiety and the loss of mastery over his desire. It can expand only through
his perception (by projection) of the woman's enjoying body (1979) (17). It
is this that makes preliminary erotic play and imaginary participation in female
orgasms and voluptuosity so signiflcant. "This mysterious carnal jouissance"
without reference to a leading organ continues to be the supreme erotic attraction
for the male. This must be the supplement of the female's jouissance that psychoanalysis
inquires about. It is in female jouissance (as jouissance of the carnal body)
that the male may find himself again and evoke something of his own primitive
jouissance, mythical fantasy of completeness without cut, illusion of oneness
and experience of the limit.
As the clitoris is not subject to detumescence as is the penis, this circumstance
allows for the continuing promotion of female pleasure. The female orgasm may
be as vast as the disposition of both partners permits; it is limited by the
body and by anxiety (castration anxiety) and by the death drive. Female carnal
constitution is available for her for the development of the expansion of her
pleasure in successive waves during foreplay. But the erogenous body rests upon
a heterogeneous carnal body which is real and measurable. This is the limit
and "real" curb on pleasure.
This vision strengthens our conviction of the necessity of revising the theoretical
conception which, based on the phallus, made the encounter between male and
female hinge upon its possession or lack.
On the one hand, this theory gave reason to think in terms of a common denominator
for both sexes: one which has a penis and the other which does not have a penis;
its influence was especially noticeable in a conception of sexual relations
which implied a carnal encounter which in sensu stricto is always insufficient
in comparison with what is expected of it. On the other hand, it produced innumerable
disturbances in psychoanalytic practice: in the analysis of women, for example,
it led to a tendency to stagnation in a search for the relationship between
clitorideal jouissance and vaginal orgasm as the key to the resolution of female
sexuality, often deriving in sterile sexology; in the analysis of men, it also
tended to leave unanswered questions about women and their enigmatic behaviour
in pleasure, not equatable to the phallus, and about the location and more precise
understanding of perverse polymorphism and its function in the ma1e's sexual
fantasies.
The game of the sexes, magnificently represented in Luis Buñuel's film,
"That Obscure Object of Desire", leaves no doubt on all this: it revolves
around the quality of attraction and horror of the object. Female behaviour
uses the lure (metaphorically) to promote sexual fantasy.
The relation seen between the lure object and that "something" of
the lost object of love (namely, what had to be repressed of that first carnal
cut) becomes evident: both share the same quality of uncanny ambiguity in which
they move, with respect to their characteristics and also with respect to the
distance they maintain in relation to what is known on the one hand (dangerous
if the Heimlich of the archaic "incest" is too thinly veiled) and
in relation to the unknown (death, its complement) on the other hand.
The play of the lure, with its characteristic ambiguous conformation, is a creation
that indicates the counterpoint between the libido and the dual nature of the
pulsations of life and death that beat from the beginning in human sexuality.
THE LURE AND THE MOTHER
The male is ordered by the paternal law in force, limited by a norm that equates
him with all males, and endowed with a visible distinguishing trait, axis of
his sexuality, the penis. The woman, primarily desirable, is a lure and by definition
is diversity, the unpredictable; another essential difference also acting in
her enigmatic character. She is PROTEUS.
Procreation, as the culmination of a phase of woman´s sexuality, also
circumscribes the carnal body and its feminine openings. Her inscription in
the mother genus, which does possess a common denominator, the children, allows
her to inhabit her body and apprehend it as a set of reactions whose causality
and meanings may now be recognized as belonging to generic universal laws, those
of reproduction. The cloaca dissolves and the process of transmission of the
laws of sexualization is consummated. Participating in the process of procreation
and upbringing, and through the mirror stage as mother of her children, she
has become included in a configuration of symbolic relations which lead to a
formalization of reality and permit her to pass from the individual to the universal.
She frees herself from the prison that "living embodied" nearly exclusively
in the carnal individual (because of her function as sexual lure and in maternity)
represented for her.
The woman remains bound in this way to a generic law. The mirror support that
first characterized the mother-daughter relationship and its derivatives is
displaced, at the moment of her maternity (or her truly equivalent achievements)
the woman receives recognition from the social and family context to which she
belongs, and her child acquires value as a factor of resolution in the development
of her female identification, granting her by this consensus a legal support
for a sufficient identity. This is the second phase in female sexuality.
THE IDEOLOGIZATION OF THE FEMALE
A deeply-rooted prejudice in psychoanalysis has been to consider
(along with Freud) that the girl´s psychosexual development is dark and
more complicated; this ideologized what is female in psychoanalysis.
From the above exposition, one may infer some factors intervening in the genesis
of this prejudice. The vicissitudes of the male in his sexualization lead him
to fight from the beginning in order to escape the temptation of returning to
his former fusion with the maternal image, holder of primitive power, the phallic
mother, the great nurturing mother.
Captured by these early demands imposed on him by his sexualization and by the
Oedipal plot, he loses access to his primitive carnal body, the body that was
involved during the fusion with the "experience of satisfaction".
We can think that this vicissitude of his archaic sexuality is (as Freud writes
in "Moses and Monotheism") "a momentous step" due to the
drastic carnal "loss" involved and its ulterior effects.
Instead of preserving his body with a penis (axis of paternal recognition and
basis for his male identity) he removes a part of himself to which he can return
-later on- only for the love of a woman.
From this viewpoint, the dilemma of love between the sexes and what Freud terms
"the female enigma" take on another meaning; the male seeks in the
female, with desire and horror, what he had to separate from himself very early
in life. His anxiety when faced with the absence of the object, this being most
uncanny, leads him to escape from integrative processes. Instead, he uses the
mechanisms of splitting and foreclosure, together with degradation, and conceives
of "several types of females". By maintaining the splitting and by
removing one of the faces of the primitive mother, the uncanny one, the face
of the reality of life and death, the male seeks to preserve only the loving
face. The anxiety of finiteness and of the lack of certainty provided by integration
and acceptance of his autonomy come together in that type of complicity: both
tend to abet or to accept the effects of dissociation through the assignnent
of roles and privileges. The technical difficulties of clinical work in dismantling
this defensive style involved in the play of power and of "masculine preeminence"
evidence its origin in a serious hurt that seems irreparable; the male (latently)
accuses the female of it and she "admits her guilt".
For this reason it is not only from the male that the lifting of the repulse
may come (since the foreclosure of the carnal seems to structure his male psychosexuality).
From him or may expect: an absolution of the mothers (who retained for them
selves the exercise of power and of sensuality and carnality); a gradual integration
of his archaic and Oedipal erogenicity; and the renouncement of the thanatic
retreat of reactive "phallic" narcissism. The reciprocal knowledge
of the psychic and sexual diversity between males and females would contribute
to the awareness of the persecutory contents involved in the prejudice against
the female and would give the carnal body its place, even though the anxiety
of the limits reemerged as well.
Perhaps this is even more difficult for the male since the female (so close
to the flesh) has also become accustomed to dealing with death and the dead.
The strength that the human need for certainty (due to the basic death anxiety)
acquires in our psyche may have influenced the formation of a bastion out of
an ideologic nucleus as regards the sexes.
This would provide the "beliefs" which are subsequently valued as
"idealized objects" functioning as omnipotent protectors.
Might female "phallicism" have influenced Freud to the extent of guiding
the thought of the founder of psychoanalysis? From the beginning, overwhelmed
in transference by the female madness manifested by the hysteric in her insatiable
desire for the mythical father, perhaps he was tempted to think he was just
that. A sum of factors finally leads him to the prejudice that female psychology
is obscure and complex and to the idea that paves the way for the theory of
phallocentrism with which he also hides his shyness toward sex and placates
the turbulent sexual appetite attributable to women. Freud "removes them
ideologically" to a distance in order to avoid temptation; so that they
may not devour him in the forbidden relationship, namely the dual relationship.
But the risk has been the death of desire, making love life appear banal through
formal considerations, a danger he himself was aware of at numerous moments
in his work.
A prohibition and a demand remain standing in Freudian teaching: the prohibition
of narcissistic autoerotic withdrawal and the demand to give and receive (24);
Freud warned us that it is necessary to be selfish in order to live, but that
it is necessary to love in order not to fall ill.
We still lack the metapsychological status of love; the forbidden in incest
is the prohibition of the primitive relationship and at the same time the promotion
of desirings: it is the female_who guarantees that oscillation of the prohibited
and sustains desiring. The potentiality of the lure is based on the desirability
of the maternal breast. As erotic and antithanatic lure, she must set sexual
play in motion. The followlng quotation from Freud aids us and invites us to
reflexion:
"... the man almost always feels his respect for the woman acting as a
restriction on his sexual activity, and only develops full potency when he is
with a debased sexual object, and this in its turn is partly caused by the entrance
of perverse components into his sexual aims, which he does not venture to satisfy
with a woman he respects (...) It sounds not only disagreeable but also paradoxical,
yet it must nevertheless be said that anyone who is to be really free and happy
in love must have sur mounted his respect for women and have come to terms with
the idea of incest with his mother or sister ..." * (1912) (7).
* (My underlining)
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SUMMARY
THE DARK CONTINENT AND ITS ENIGMAS
The following quotation-from Freud (1912) may be the thread of this paper, and
must surely resound throughout: "... anyone who is to be really free and
happy in love must have surmounted his respect for women and have come to terms
with the idea of incest with his mother or sister". In the author's view,
the female would not precisely be victim of this imaginary encounter, neither
would she take the initiative. Instead, she would function as "lure",
a key concept in the present theoretic-clinical paper. The lure alludes to desire,
and desire to the objet petit a (Lacan), described by the author. Desire differs
from need in that need demands real objects and specific action, whereas for
desire both "caviare" and "smoked salmon" (to quhote Freud's
example) mean the same. The objet petit a "runs through" these "normal
fetishes" and when it settles in one of these, it becomes perversion.
The function of "lure" defines the female, however, a double identification
for each sex, not identical with the Freudian concept of bi-sexuality, is postulated.
This by no means implies that the body is not involved. It is involved, but
the author attempts to prevent the hypothesis of the traumatic experience implicit
in the acknowledgement of the "anatomical distinction" from obscuring
the understanding of the "psychical distinction" between the sexes
A lack must be recognized, not quantitative but radical.
Another key subject in this paper is that of the sexualization process. As psychosexuality
is not "mere" sexuality, psychoanalysis is interested in the complex
and quite precocious relationship, quite different for each sex, between the
infans and his mother.
The author describes the situation for both sexes during the mirror stage, when
previously disperse and incoordinate proprioceptive data are unified in a selfimage.
Identity is assigned to the infans from outside, just as he receives his name
and the expectations others place in him.
The little boy is not only separated from his mother`s body very early, but
also from closeness with her; whereas the little girl is held in by her mother
(Freud acknowledged the relevance of her pre-Oedipal phase) and later acquires
the desirability of the nurturing breast. The little girl cannot relativize
the mother's power by means of a hostile cathexis. She will only be able to
do so when she functions as a mother herself, namely, when she has acceded to
universal laws. Before then, she must evoke and repudiate the first experience
of jouissance-impotence-laceration.